Midlife Thrive

Guiding women 30+ through transformation beyond symptoms to purpose and connection.

Hello I'm Mizpah Eke

Founder of AJA Midlyfe. I am a Certified Women's Wellness, Health and Midlife Transition Practitioner. I help women navigate their whole life and the reinvention that comes with it.

Helping women 30+ transform midlife with heart and science.

My Journey: From Personal Confusion to Thriving

I woke up on day and, I found myself with everything society said I should want—a marriage, children, a full life—yet I felt completely lost.

Perimenopause hit, and with it came a storm no one warned me about: my body felt foreign, my patience with my family wore thin, and I started questioning everything I thought I knew about myself.

I was given a leaflet on hot flashes, but no guidance for the identity crisis, the communication breakdowns with my husband, or the deep sense that I was changing into someone I didn't recognize. I had to navigate the fog alone, piecing together health strategies while trying to hold my life together.

It was in that messy, challenging space that AJA Midlyfe was born. I realized if I—a determined, resourceful woman—felt this overwhelmed, millions of others were too. I committed to turning my hard-won knowledge into a clear roadmap so no woman has to navigate this transition without a map, a guide, and the confidence that she's not just surviving, but building a better next chapter.

My mission is simple: to give you the integrated support I needed but couldn't find.

My Philosophy: Your Transition, Connected

I learned the hard way that you can't fix fatigue with just sleep, or a strained marriage with just date nights. Midlife transition is a whole-life event.
  • Your changing biology (the fatigue, brain fog, mood swings) affects...

  • Your evolving identity (the "who am I now?" questions), which impacts...

  • Your most important relationships (the communication gaps, the lost intimacy).

Tackling just one piece leaves you frustrated. My framework connects all three, because true transformation happens where your hormones, your purpose, and your relationships meet.

This is the work: not just managing symptoms, but consciously building the life that comes after them.

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A warm, candid photo of a thoughtful midlife individual sitting by a window, reflecting with a soft smile.

Our Approach

Three pillars guide your midlife transformation with clarity and connection.

This Isn't Piecemeal coaching—It's a complete blueprint to navigate hormonal, Identity, and relationship shifts simultaneously, emerging with vitality, purpose, and connection.

Biology

Master perimenopause symptoms using science-backed energy and clarity tools.

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A serene woman practicing mindful breathing outdoors at sunrise.
Identity

Design your authentic 'chapter 2' beyond old roles and expectations.

Upgrade communication and intimacy as you evolve in your relationships.

Relationships
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A joyful group of midlife women sharing stories and laughter around a cozy fire.
Close-up of hands intertwined, symbolizing deep connection and support.
Close-up of hands intertwined, symbolizing deep connection and support.

Your Questions

Who is Missy?

Missy is a certified women’s health and wellness practitioner.

What is Aja Midlyfe?

Aja Midlyfe helps women 30+ navigate midlife transitions with coaching and resources.

How does your framework work?

It connects biological intelligence, identity architecture, and relational recoding to support holistic midlife transformation.

Who benefits most?

Women over 30 seeking more than symptom relief during midlife.

What services do you offer?

1:1 coaching, workplace training, and free wellness resources.

How can I start working with you?

Reach out via the contact page to schedule a consultation and begin your journey.

Praise

Words from women transformed by Missy

Missy's coaching helped me understand my hormones and purpose, turning my midlife chaos into clarity and calm.

Lara M.
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A smiling woman in her 40s sitting peacefully in a sunlit garden.

Austin TX

Thanks to Missy, I rewired my relationships and found new purpose. Midlife feels like a fresh start, not an end.

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A joyful woman laughing with friends outdoors on a bright afternoon.
Nina K.

Denver CO

★★★★★
★★★★★

Connect

Reach out to Missy for guidance through your midlife journey.